Adoption Reunion Search Guidelines

Adoption.com Guide to Search & Reunion by Jan Baker
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Cyndi's Genealogy List
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Successfully Searching For People Through the Internet
Guide by Diane Harman-Hoog. Please copy and distribute as you wish.

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Recipe for Success in your Search

First gather all the facts about them. List everything known at the time you begin to look including:
 

  • Full NAME (if known)
  • AGE/birth date (if unknown, guess about how old)
  • LOCATIONS/city/state where they were last known to be. 
These three (3) solid pieces of information gets them found most of the time. The more you tell us, the easier it will be to find them.

If you are looking for an adoption, a missing birth family or birth child, get the non ID from the agency they were adopted from or the state. With that, we might be able to find them.

Then line up your 'ducks' , make a list of the facts. Send everything the first time, don't send it one fact at a time & say I have more later. I'm not a mind reader or a Swami.  I need the details.

Post them where it counts, on adoption related sites like:

      G's Adoption www.gsadoptionregistry.com
     The Seeker http://www.the-seeker.com/relative.htm 

The searchers, like us, can see it & try helping you.

SPELL things correctly, if you can't spell, get a dictionary. We spend more time trying to figure out 'what' your saying, than we do finding them, with bad spelling.

If you get a reply from a 'team of searchers' like us, hit "REPLY ALL" & send back the 'original text'. We do hundreds of these and can't be expected to remember your email address or the details or your name for that matter.

If it is a Medical Emergency for an adoption/adoptee to save a life, fill out the form on EMLA’s website:
 http://adoption-free-search.org/registration.htm

We'll be happy to help. FREE again! Happy Hunting Folk !! 

Bob
a FREE searcher, not an Angel !

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